"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks xblitz44x (for seducingwomen101.com)

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I looked at this site and found lots of good stuff to read (besides a few typos, I don't see why people seem to believe that destini9's writing is incoherent). I used to frequent this board under different names way back in the day, and, in regards to the thread you started "understanding seducingwomen101.com", I think you hit the nail right on the head. Destini9 has a lot of outstanding information (that will hurt many who try to use "tricks" on women), and, though I don't agree with her on everything she says, has much wisdom to spread.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For starters, destnini doesn't get what this site is all about or other pickup sites. She argues against the principles of social and behavioral psych.

She's a dumbass anyways
 

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Anyone who considers the stuff here to be 'tricks' obviously does not fully understand them. They simply do not get it and that is fine. I haven't read most of the stuff over there although I'm sure there's some great stuff - But from what I've read she seems to be extremely bitter from her hours of reading a men's message board. And what are the chances that she's ever met a sosuave DJ in her whole life?
 

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I remember when I was younger. I'd hear one of my friends was able to make the most of an opportunity that my parents wouldn't let me near.

Grandpappy would say, "Worry about yourself, not your friend."

This bit of wisdom covers alot of ground. I've looked at seducingwomen101.com. I read through it and didn't really notice that it was written horribly, but I also read that she was an exotic dancer at one time.

There is one thing that this site does do sometimes, and that is that it tends to generalize about what will "work" with a girl. Thus, it generalizes about girls. Obviously, this is because as women, having been raised (like us) primarily by women, they tend to think alike.

I've spent time in strip clubs before. Some of the women had no business trying to make a living taking their clothes off. They just weren't that attractive. More than half of them are doing some sort of recreational drug and the majority of them have had some sort of unpleasant sexual encounter with a man or a relative. I'm not saying she has, I'm saying most have.

I would think that this would skew her perrceptions a little bit. Either from her own experiences or observing the behavior of her sister strippers.

Just as there are some crazy guys on this forum posting some really crappy advice, tips that wouldn't work for more than half the guys on the planet, there are some lousy points within her site as well.

Also, there's some elements of excellent insight in both forums.


Let's just remember that everyone is different. What works for one guy on one girl may not work for another guy on the same girl or a different girl.
 

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lol...

The CORE principles of this site are MISLEADING. Totally. And those who are conscious enough, will find out that...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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