"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks To All The Dj's

OamImrsNemo

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I just wanna thank all the Don Juans who have been helping me with my game lately. There's alot of guys on here who help out alot and dont get a thank you. So thank you all.

And! KAILEX g0d@nm't you were right I should have broken up with that b!tch sooner. She started keeping more sh!t from me and I found out. I just broke up w/ her tonight. It really sucks because I got attatched and like somone said before I was developing Oneitis for her. But Now I am looking at the positive side on the things I have learned.

I did learn alot of good ways to stay alpha and dominant and she loved it for the most part. I read the sexgod book and learned alot and applied that with her and it worked as well. I learned that you NEED to listen to all the DJ's with multiple respect under them as they ARE right no matter what YOU think. most important of all dont trust a ho3 and make them earn you!

So now instead of a pity party I will start a project work out more and start going out there and spinnin them plates

Thanks guys! Without you all we would all be F^ked
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kailex

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I understand that you want to thank all of us, which is great and all, but now comes the hardest part, which is distancing yourself from that woman.

It's done with, and it's over.

The way you described your situation with her, it seems that you might have been a little co-dependent on her, definitely a oneitis.

My big fear is that you posted here off of an emotional high due to dumping her. That's good and all, but I hope once the feeling completely sinks in, you don't do what a majority of the guys do... which is just begin to regret their actions and then come here and ask how to get the girl back.

That woman is TROUBLE. So please, do yourself a favor and delete her completely from your life.

Welcome to being single, hopefully now you'll pick up multiple plates and go from there.
 

falconslax89

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kailex you are by far my favorite poster here and have been for awhile..i would also like to say thanks for the help
 

OamImrsNemo

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I understand that you want to thank all of us, which is great and all, but now comes the hardest part, which is distancing yourself from that woman.

It's done with, and it's over.

The way you described your situation with her, it seems that you might have been a little co-dependent on her, definitely a oneitis.

My big fear is that you posted here off of an emotional high due to dumping her. That's good and all, but I hope once the feeling completely sinks in, you don't do what a majority of the guys do... which is just begin to regret their actions and then come here and ask how to get the girl back.

That woman is TROUBLE. So please, do yourself a favor and delete her completely from your life.

Welcome to being single, hopefully now you'll pick up multiple plates and go from there.
Yeah I did have oneitis bad and I noticed that when I dumped her but I think I will be fine. I deleted her number all our pictures threw away everything she gave to me. Got a number today just gonna keep at it. I think realizing I had oneitis after dumping her was enough for 1. Me to push her away farther 2. not let it happen again (hopefully)

Your awesome Kailex Thanks buddy.
 
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