"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks Sosuave!

kentgraham10

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It's hard to share everything I learned here because a lot of it became who I am as a person now but I was able to overcome everything and lost my virginity last night! 21 Years old its later than most do but it was fun and I lasted a long time and she's telling people I did a good job and that she liked my ****! Thanks again guys! Long time reader finally able to put it to use!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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J Roc

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Congrats! Whats her phone number? I got next. We share around here :)
 

kentgraham10

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Never got her number and barely got her name. Met her at the club and took her home lol
 

TheMale

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Kent: you should think about your fellaz around here ! ;p

jus kidding, congrats !!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJuanit0

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Congratz but, who you know she's telling good things about your sex? You barely know her! I guess no common friends to share that info or something! >< I know I'm the bad guy here but just wondering! :p
 

Leopold

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OHHH YEAHHH!! Way to go BABY!!!

Grats my man!!! Your hard work has paid off... hopefully mines will come soon too ^^
 
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