"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks, SoSuave!

Supremo

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Just wanted to say thanks to all the people who've posts have inspired me and made me into who I am today.

I was never really bad with girls, but this site has helped me become a true Don Juan.

Right now, I've got myself a great girlfriend. As outgoing as I was before, I'm a lot more social than before, it's easier to talk to people and make friends... overall life is good.

So again, thanks for helping out. I'm going to focus more on my current girlfriend, so I wont be on as much. Yeah yeah, oneitis you may think? Sure. But it's not oneitis as in "she's the only one." It's just we're happy keeping it just us.

Peace out guys,
Take it easy,
and good luck!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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comic_relief

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Supremo said:
Just wanted to say thanks to all the people who've posts have inspired me and made me into who I am today.

I was never really bad with girls, but this site has helped me become a true Don Juan.

Right now, I've got myself a great girlfriend. As outgoing as I was before, I'm a lot more social than before, it's easier to talk to people and make friends... overall life is good.

So again, thanks for helping out. I'm going to focus more on my current girlfriend, so I wont be on as much. Yeah yeah, oneitis you may think? Sure. But it's not oneitis as in "she's the only one." It's just we're happy keeping it just us.

Peace out guys,
Take it easy,
and good luck!
very good going.

You should stick around and keep posting. you seem to got everything under control. Help the noobies out.

Thats all that I am doing anymore. I got my life under control, so help the others out.

comic_relief
 
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