"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm pretty new to the site, and 3 weeks ago I was pretty pissed because I didn't know what I was doing or anything. So I read for a little and nothing really helped me much...But then I realised, the stuff is working. Maybe I am just to shy to use anything I find here and put it to use. So I read some stuff on confidence and soon found out this was my main flaw.

Confidence is probably every persons problem who visits this site for there first time. I'm telling you people to READ every tip on this site. EVERYTHING is usefull here.

Today I went to school and wasn't the quiet guy in the back. I actually had a nice conversation with a girl I'd been DYING to talk to FINALLY!

Listen to the people here, they're fukkin geniuses. Before you try anything in here take the first tiny step: Improving your confidence. Thanks everyone! :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by DacDx
I'm telling you people to READ every tip on this site. EVERYTHING is usefull here.
False. Not everything is useful here. Infact, most is BS. Most people in here are clueless when it comes to women. That's why most have searched and found this site. So be very critical on the tips and information written here.

But, and that's a big but, in the bible you will find LOTS of great stuff. Read that and internalize it. Read it again and again. Apply the information to your everyday-life and field test everything you think will work for you. A lot of gold in there that can literally change your life, but be critical! If you aren't then you will get confused and will not improve alot. Some guys write excellent, insightful stuff. Some guys (and all girls) write utter crap. When you get the basic principals and get a better understanding after being out in the field, you will be able to seperate the bad advice from the good advice.


Originally posted by DacDx
Listen to the people here, they're fukkin geniuses.
Again..you give some people waaaaaaaaay too much credit :p
 

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Some tips are useful.

But the tips that are useful should definetly be checked out.
 

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Yeah sorry guys didn't really mean everything, go to the hall of fame or bible I guess, but ALOT of stuff is still usefull! :)
 

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Originally posted by DacDx
Yeah sorry guys didn't really mean everything, go to the hall of fame or bible I guess, but ALOT of stuff is still usefull! :)
That's correct ;) I've learned ALOT here.

Also check out bristollair.com. Good stuff.

And if you are into routines and techniques check out fastseduction.com
It's not for everyone, but i find it useful to have in your "Arsenal"..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree that most advice here is BS. Most guys who are giving advice are not getting laid, and probably have few prospects. When you get in the field it becomes second nature to disregard half of the BS you've read. Most of my improvements came not from this site but from hanging with natural guys and hot girls.
 

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The stuff that works 100% of the time is usually tips having to do with only Confidence.
 
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