"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I spent a long time in a relationship. About 4 years. The last six months really went downhill and I wasn't doing what I should have been. To make a long story short, we broke up and I was devastated. It sucked.

I got on this forum (much like I did before I got this girl) and just spent some time. I ignored my girlfriend and waited her out. I re-learned some techniques and remembered why I was worthwhile.

Last night, my ex called me and asked me out. It was cool and I'll probably go along with it but if we get back together, it'll be on my terms.

I just wanted to say thanks for reminding me that I'm a man and that I need to be going after what I want. She's lucky to get to be a part of my life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well done man, hope it goes best for u. Don't let a woman forget who u are and what u r worth, but bravo 4 years worth of relationship experience (even if it is good or bad) to go on ur belt also. If things are not ment to be, don't be scared to walk away, i know its hard but u gotta trust ur gutt on this one. Overall I hope u get what u want dude.
 
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I've never dated an ex without being reminded of WHY they were the ex in the first place
 
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