"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I spent a long time in a relationship. About 4 years. The last six months really went downhill and I wasn't doing what I should have been. To make a long story short, we broke up and I was devastated. It sucked.

I got on this forum (much like I did before I got this girl) and just spent some time. I ignored my girlfriend and waited her out. I re-learned some techniques and remembered why I was worthwhile.

Last night, my ex called me and asked me out. It was cool and I'll probably go along with it but if we get back together, it'll be on my terms.

I just wanted to say thanks for reminding me that I'm a man and that I need to be going after what I want. She's lucky to get to be a part of my life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well done man, hope it goes best for u. Don't let a woman forget who u are and what u r worth, but bravo 4 years worth of relationship experience (even if it is good or bad) to go on ur belt also. If things are not ment to be, don't be scared to walk away, i know its hard but u gotta trust ur gutt on this one. Overall I hope u get what u want dude.
 
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I've never dated an ex without being reminded of WHY they were the ex in the first place
 
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