"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Thanks guys, but I don't think there's anything more I can learn here

Scion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2009
Messages
566
Reaction score
7
Hey guys, just writing this thread to say thanks for any help you gave me. I've learned a lot here, although none of that has helped me find success with women. So I figure I'm missing something that this forum can't help me with, maybe it's something I need to figure out or develop on my own (maybe a bigger wallet, lol). I'm putting this whole girl thing on hold anyway, I have more important things to do right now (finishing my education, getting a house). Anyway, this has gotten longer than I originally planned, but thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Captain

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2009
Messages
945
Reaction score
29
Location
Australia
Scion said:
I've learned a lot here, although none of that has helped me find success with women.
This site can only lay the foundation for what you are to become. It can point you in the right direction, in the end it's up to YOU to ACT and make a big push to change your life, you need to get out and push your comfort zone and push and push and push and you don't even recognise yourself.

It's like building a house. Can't do it without laying the foundation, but then you need to move on, you can lay all the foundation you want and it's not going to give you windows and a roof.
 

Scion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2009
Messages
566
Reaction score
7
I agree with you about the foundation is only the first step. The stuff preached on this forum seem to be only the basics, the foundation. I've yet to figure out the stuff to take it to the next level, which may just be inexperience (at least I hope so). I've improved a lot with women (I've actually had dates in the last year, which were very rare before that), have learned to take rejection with some sort of self-respect, and my eyes have been opened to the true nature of women. I guess that's something, which I can be happy with.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top