"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks! And HELP! Virgin issues!

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Ok, this may be a blessing in disguise. First off thanks to everyone here. This site has helped my in so many ways. To make a long story short I pulled the woman of my dreams. HB 10! Ok actually 9 but she's a pro athlete so I say ten. Anyways tonight was the night baby, and I was feeling mighty manly so I threw on the silk thong and rolled over to her place. Fast forward a little bit, just after snapping the bra of (with one hand Ching!) I start making my way downtown to get a taste sample when WHAM! "I dont think I told you i'm a virgin" :woo:

SCREEEEEECH!~ Kaboom! My train of lust, infatuation, all being pulled by a strong DJ Skill kaboos had been derailed in the most violent of ways. Before I could stop myself I felt the bitter beer face come over me. Anyways I managed to save face and get out of there with another invite for tomorrow night.

I'm in my twenties and so is she and its been along time since i've had to deal with a virgin. I'm trying to think of the cons of this situation but I cant seem to find any other than the obvious "virgin" phobia. Considering she's the woman of my dreams physically this could be the best I could have hoped for.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is this virgin phobia you speak of?
 
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You know I cant really describe it, for some reason it completely threw me off. I was looking forward to a night of nastyness, but the "V" bomb blew that away. Disappointment is what I was overtook by.....hrmmmm
 
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Originally posted by WS6
You know I cant really describe it, for some reason it completely threw me off. I was looking forward to a night of nastyness, but the "V" bomb blew that away. Disappointment is what I was overtook by.....hrmmmm
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Disappointment? More like opportunity, young padawan...

The woman of your dreams she is, and a vigin also?! I know you want some nastiness, but who says she won't be nasty? You can always so her a few things as well...
 
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I can explain it, atleast what it is in my mind and others who I have talked to...

Virgin phobia is usually fear of what will happen after she loses her virginity. It is a big step for a guy because if you take a girls virginity, she will forever be tied to you. If she is LTR material, then take it. Usually she will never cheat or hurt you man, that is ideal in a woman, right?

Now there are of course cons to this... I have seen woman turn into wh0res after their first time... She might smother you, become obsessed with you, blah blah blah. But who cares, she will probably be LTR material so take her virginity and mary the biatch. Happily ever after...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So your telling me you had her on a bed and you didnt know she was a virgin till she told you. Comeon man virgins are easy to spot out especially when you get her in bed. Well anyway you should have f**ked sometimes a virgin will get into it. Especialy at 20 she must masturbate regurlay she might have got nastie.

My advice go back and f**k her if she doesnt want to lose her virginity **** her up the ass... hey technically she will still be a virgin
 
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Do what must be done. Execute code 69. :woo:
 
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