"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UltimateScoundrel

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I've been away from this forum for a long time. It's been maybe a year since I posted last and I'm not sure how many of the guys who were there when I started out are still around, but I thought I'd drop in at least one last time and tell you guys how grateful I am that I found you.

This site changed me from the biggest AFC in the world into the most confident person I know. Nobody I've met is a better combination of confidence, intelligence, and humor, and I owe it all to this forum.

You guys made me the person I am today and I am so thankful. Because of everything I learned here, I became confident enough to approach any woman that I see.

Because of everything I learned here, I can keep a woman laughing and entertained.

Because of everything I learned here I was able to meet the girl of my dreams and get her. I've got a girl who's personality matches mine better than any I've ever met. She's the one for me, and I have to thank all of you for that.

I know that this post probably belongs in the "Anything Else" forum, but I wanted to make sure that everyone here read it.

It would be great if you mods could leave it here as a favor to me and an inspiration to some of those budding young DJ's.

Thank You,
UltimateScoundrel
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey. Just for you, this post will be placed in the Don Juan Golden Tip Album, as an insipiration. Post in this same spot a story of success :).

Cheers!
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Originally posted by UltimateScoundrel
Because of everything I learned here I was able to meet the girl of my dreams and get her. I've got a girl who's personality matches mine better than any I've ever met. She's the one for me, and I have to thank all of you for that.
THERE YA GO BABY!

What's awesome is I've been here since 2001 (whatsupwiddat) and I've done the same thing.. its awesome isn't it? HAHAHA I love it!
 
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