I just joined the message board a few minutes ago after lurking for the last week and a half. I haven't even read the DJ Bible yet, but I've gathered so much info from all you guys just by reading through various threads the last few days. It never one time occured to me the mistakes I was making in flirting and just having game at all until accidently running across this site. For example, the chick I've been talking to the last few weeks. She's been extremely hot and cold with me, thus leaving me wondering and trying harder. Paying her tons of compliments and making sure she knew I was intrested to no avail. After reading through here I've flipped the script on her. I've stopped with the compliments almost all together, and might call her once for every three times she calls me always keeping it short. Basically treating her like I would a girl I'm not into. She's starting to do to me what I was doing to her.
Of course changing my body is something I've been doing for awhile to help me out in the game, but I've done that on my own because I got tired of being a self-pitying fa-tass. I've dropped from 260, down to 230 and I've just recently started hitting the weights pretty heavy. Started a new job in attempt to better my financial situation. My confidence is waaaaay up compared to 6 months ago. I'm generally happy in life nowadays and I know that helps.
Anyways, I have every intention of sticking around this message board and even though you guys had no idea how much you helped me recently, thanks for being part of this site for guys like myself.
Of course changing my body is something I've been doing for awhile to help me out in the game, but I've done that on my own because I got tired of being a self-pitying fa-tass. I've dropped from 260, down to 230 and I've just recently started hitting the weights pretty heavy. Started a new job in attempt to better my financial situation. My confidence is waaaaay up compared to 6 months ago. I'm generally happy in life nowadays and I know that helps.
Anyways, I have every intention of sticking around this message board and even though you guys had no idea how much you helped me recently, thanks for being part of this site for guys like myself.