"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gomariners51

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what do you guys think about texting? should full conversations be had threw text messages, or just short little texts? or maybe both?
just curious to see what everything thinks about it. and its purpose
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, it's not "normal" to have full on conversations. However, if it's convienient to you then why not? Who gives a **** what someone else thinks. I got to know the girl I will probably end up marrying through text conversations.
 
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I don't text. Ever. If a woman texts me, I call her and talk to her.

However, I've found that that texting can be a good test of IL. If I exchange numbers with a gal, and she texts me the next day or so..I've had a 100% success rate of getting a date with her.

I know it sounds strange. But, women love to text...and if you get into texting match with her, your testosterone level seems to decline.

But..is she texts you, and you call her. It seems to work great.

Each to his own, but for me, give me a personal convo any time. If she texts, call her.

To add, a lot of women use texting as a feeler. She'll send out a safe text to see if you are interested. She wants a man though, with balls, who will call her up.
 
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