"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Texting while with ur GF...

illmatic1005

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when im with my gf sometimes..i text ppl bcuz she doesnt talk sometimes and is boring sometimes too..

i didnt kno it made her mad until someone told me that she doesnt like it..

y couldnt she just tell me?

stupid biotch
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tsmith2334

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I'd just do it like once every time you see her, if you need to. Don't do it alot or just for the sake of texting people.
 

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That makes you a dumbazz for not noticing the obvious.
 

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Why does she care?
 

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lol .. going on date and texting with other people ??

thats bad .. i dont think is good idea ..

If ur in LTR

Open with her and tell her anything and she will open will you too
I know this cuz my GF and I didnt talk sometimes too cuz we didnt know what to talk or something like this .

But tell her storys , than she will tell u things too . Make fun of something , tell her what happened last week ( something interesting ) . Keep her and yourself busy with each other ..

If u have problem with this prepare what to talk and what storys to tell to her before meeting :D ..
U dont always gotta be spontaneous .

And as a time passes youll see yhat youll not have problem with this anymore ..

If ur not in LTR


Just make out with her and fvck her :D .. u dont need so much conversation :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DoctorLW

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LTR, not LTR, friend, or not... texting is pretty rude when having a conversation. Now if someone send you a text and you respond quickly, that's one thing. But if you actually start texting people you're just flat out being an arsehole.
 

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DoctorLW said:
LTR, not LTR, friend, or not... texting is pretty rude when having a conversation. Now if someone send you a text and you respond quickly, that's one thing. But if you actually start texting people you're just flat out being an arsehole.
yea ur right .. its very rude ..
even when we are couple of friends 3-4 and one of them texts or talks to someone on phone for long time i become pretty nervous :box:
 

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it could just be an insecurity thing too. my gf can't stand whenever i text. hell, she asks who im texting if i check the TIME on my phone. but it's really not a big deal to me. i mean if she doesnt like you texting, don't text. how much you text is really not considered a facet of your personality. therefore, she's not asking you to change your personality, so you CAN change it without being afc. pick your battles dude. would you like it if it were the other way around?

you: hey this crazy thing happened last week....

her: hold on let me send a couple texts...

yea that doesn't exactly sound appealing to me
 
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