"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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funning around with some broads, quick question bout texting and your opinionz

I like sexting if im bored but should you try to get the texting to a sexual level before the first date or should you keep all that till you got pchysical with her.

one of my plates is a slut and mad on her bf shes pregnant and she says that hes not around, still we texting only about sex, she wants to meet up, having some skype sessions also, ASD kicked in once but I replied well and she got loosen up and sends me pics of herself.

next broad refused to get drinks once but still texts me and snapchats me pics of herself.

I mostly go by: My back hurts
her: awhh.. (or osmething similar)
me: need a massage baby, give me one

and from there I go to sexual texting

u guyz think you should do it or will she feel used and will it ruin your chances.

so the last girl only see her at the bus stations and kino'ed her once in a cafe and number closed but no date yet..

ofcourse I know sexting should be ok if your in a relationship or at least had sex with the girl. tease tease, let her beg for it and meet up for the action.

my question goes for girls you never dated or made out with yet,,
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A woman I was texting gave me a faint sext opening, maybe she was fishing, maybe not. I sent something back about using 'safe for work texts (for now anyway)'. She chuckled about the 'for now' part of the message. From there it took off and it was on, all the way into her bed on our first meet up.

Who can know how women think?
 

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Normally im a fan of less is more when it comes to texting....however i do like sexting. Similar to how guys are stimulated visually, girls can be very easily stimulated by the written word. If you are intelligent, creative, good vocabulary, sexting can pump her up sexually very effectively. You do have to be smooth and ease your way into it. Girls are surprisingly receptive to it. Don't be afraid to be very detailed and...i wanna say romantic, but thats not the right word.....for example:

Dont say something lame like 'i'd stick my **** in your ***** and bang you so hard"

Say something like "And i'd run my tongue slowly down your body...teasing you and licking you everywhere until you're about to burst from anticipation."

Sorry to be a know-it-all, you prob already know how to do it, but hopefully that's helpful.

As for doing it before the first date...i wouldn't. Maybe only if when you met her she had a HUUUGE interest level, and you were giving her lots of borderline sexual kino. Ideally i would wait until you've already banged her. But i've had results with doing it after meeting and before banging
 

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gravityeyelids said:
Normally im a fan of less is more when it comes to texting....however i do like sexting. Similar to how guys are stimulated visually, girls can be very easily stimulated by the written word. If you are intelligent, creative, good vocabulary, sexting can pump her up sexually very effectively. You do have to be smooth and ease your way into it. Girls are surprisingly receptive to it. Don't be afraid to be very detailed and...i wanna say romantic, but thats not the right word.....for example:

Dont say something lame like 'i'd stick my **** in your ***** and bang you so hard"

Say something like "And i'd run my tongue slowly down your body...teasing you and licking you everywhere until you're about to burst from anticipation."

Sorry to be a know-it-all, you prob already know how to do it, but hopefully that's helpful.

As for doing it before the first date...i wouldn't. Maybe only if when you met her she had a HUUUGE interest level, and you were giving her lots of borderline sexual kino. Ideally i would wait until you've already banged her. But i've had results with doing it after meeting and before banging
That's actually pretty good, exact how I bring it to them. I say stuff like 'Then imma kiss your neck and go slowly down kissing and licking, then put off your string spread your legs lick slowly all around it till your so wet that you beg for it and still won't give it to ya''

some stuff like that lol , works great , they tell me their biggest fantasies
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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