"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Texting response times mean nothing, stop panicking.

Stuffnu

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When you’re too busy chatting multiple ladies, response times become irrelevant.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Advice from the old lady:

OP pursues what pleases him and is having success. My playboy buddy would subscribe to this philosophy as well (who cares about response time)….The key is to have enough value to have multiple options at any given time. What do you care if a chick takes a day, a week or a month to get back to you if you have half dozen (or more) others in the cue? Answer: It doesn’t matter. You are too busy entertaining other options to care.

One other factor is this. If a chick is out with someone else she is unlikely to text back immediately. If she’s a hottie she has a full social calendar herself. When you don’t react to lengthy response times you are “chill” not desperate or thirsty. Patience pays in seduction gentlemen. Often.

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