"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Texting Opinion Please!

tmac15

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Alright fellas opinions please

If a woman you took out on a date but since then lost interest (still clueless about that) texts you group texts does that mean she has some interest still? She takes the time to include you in text such as "Bingo tonight see you there!" "Or what is everyone doing tonight? "

Speaking from experience when I mass text I usually include people I want to see in my text, or if it's a woman to gauge her interest by her response time and what she says. I haven't responded to her last text. Anything?? Or am I thinking way too much??? If anything guys tell me how you play the texting game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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Even regular texts dont mean shyt
 

Farmboy

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...or she's too stupid to leave you out of the group text list.
Or she is doing it because her whole world at this point is revolving around playing a mind game with you </sarcasm>

Seriously, don't think this kinda stuff to death. Even when women are interested they often won't seek you out, so if she really lost interest in you like you said she probably isn't trying to include you in her plans. If it is really bothering you, call her and try to set up a date. She blows you off/flakes you've got your answer. Smells like a dead end to me though. Go find someone else, even if you do get another date with her. Scarcity breeds desparation. Desparation=AFC.

BTW, texting is weak. If talking on the phone is like having sex with a condom, texting is like diddling her from across the room with a dildo taped to a broomstick.
 
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