"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Texting/Online Dating Tips

deadmasterx

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For those who wanna try these things and don't know how to do it properly (guys that are used with face-to-face just like I am), and for those who know some stuff to share their knowledge here, give your tips for the other DJs.

Remember, most places are still in quarentine so "go out date her" and "stop texting and go meet new girls on other places" aren't the best tips either.

My tip: Don't stay too much on your cellphone, don't give too much attention. Make sure to cut off the chat or call when it is still good, not when it is starting to get boring. Give her "surprise calls", be unexpected, surprising. Never ask for a call, just go for it.

You guys keep it on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jor-El

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Agreed.I have found out the hard way,that to much texting is the kiss of death. Even if the girls *says* otherwise.To much messaging leads to,misunderstandings,things taken the wrong way,boredom,then breakup.Get off the phone!
 
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