"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Texting me hours later

myopoh

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spiegel549 said:
Way to much over thinking, many to much thought with all these "rules."

Just be INDIFFERENT. Act like its not a big deal, who cares how long she took? Maybe she is busy, maybe her phone died, maybe she is banging some other dude but who cares? Are you trying to marry her or just bang her?

The past month I have literally texted a ton of new girls, and when they don't respond, I let a week go by and I text them again. 90% of them responded and I acted like NOTHING was wrong, never even brought up about them not responding. I ended up banging two of them just last week.


I went through a major change recently with my attitude towards women. I use to be the type that would get mad, or go "huh ill show her for disrespecting me! I'll next her that will show her!"

What I have learned is when you show you care, and show things bother you, you lose. When you are Indifferent. You win. Remember "Who Cares?"
Words to live by.......
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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