Im 22 im on tinder and I’ve had nearly 500 matches over the course of about 5 months
Ive had 3 dates from it , cant count how many numbers ,a few kisses , but no bangs
I mainly use it to judge what sort of chicks are into me and how good looking they are, also great for wasting time if you where say on the bus
I agree that the younger gen is nowhere near the same kettle of fish as their older counterparts who are much easier to manipulate and game through text / social media
ONS may be easier to acquire in my generation and more socially accepted these days but FWB and LTR’s with the younger gen are becoming increasingly difficult to establish
The amount of times girls have asked me over text if I am texting them because I am “only after one thing” is ridiculous ……the paranoia is actually irritating
Its become so drilled into modern culture now that “LADS” are only after one thing and one thing only
Women are absolutely petrified of being as someone put it above me “pumped and dumped” lol
Of course they are young and they have there needs even more so perhaps when drunk ….this is where a ONS becomes perfectly acceptable
However where as they are prepared for a night of passion they aren’t prepared to get emotionally invested at any level …..and who can blame them
You would be kidding yourself if you think chicks on tinder are on there to bang …..sure you might get lucky once in a blue moon…….but primarily They on there to kill time, build self esteem and have a giggle with their friends over desperate guys chat up lines
I think the game is changing and I certainly think it needs to be modernised ……a lot of the original methods simply just simply don’t wash well any more
The way I feel at the moment is like I’m running on windows XP and most chicks I speak to are on something like windows 8 lol
Will report back when ive “updated” so – to –speak
