Texting, good or bad?

[DJinTraining06]

I been goin out with this girl now for slightly over a week, we went out 3 times, not even sure i can call it anythin yet, but she ask me to go some balllet with her next week so i assume she thinks were dating now.

Anyway my question is: Is it ok to text her every day? She said she is not a phone person and she only likes to use it to make plans, and that she loves texting. It appears shes tellin the truth cuz she has texted me a few times this past week already just to say hi or that she had fun with me. Now my qustion is, should i text her at least once a day or is that overkill. I dont plan on callin her much unless i wanna make plans w/her or somethin. We talk online almsot every night whihc i know is prob a mistake but its been goin well with those talks. So should i keep her eager to talk to me by not callin and texting much at all, or should i give her a text a day to keep her thinkin bout me? She's not the real needy type so im not sure if the less is more thing willwork on her.

 

[Hitman10000]

Any form of communication is always good, don't let it be excessive or a crutch cause the both of you will meet in person and will have more things to talk about or do things with.

 

[mrRuckus]

Texting is always misintrepreted and leads to arguments.

 

[The_Reaper]

People never answer the fukkin question asked - he asked should he text her every day, not, does it lead to misinterpretation. To answer: no, you should not text her EVERY day. I used to to text my GF every day, and if you think about it, obviously the value of daily messages is DECREASED! She wont be excited by you texting her - it will become commonplace. Simple. So if you DHV (lol, love abbreviations: demonstrate higher value) by scarcity - she will love u for it. I stopped texting my GF every day and would mix it up - she'll get excited when u text her less. She'll be thinking about you when you're not texting, and girls love to be thinking about a guy, wondering when he's gonna call (or text).

 

[DJinTraining06]

Thanks, sounds like good advice. I wonder if I should tex her today though. Last time i texted her was Sunday, and i said somehting short and funny to tease her. She replied back and seemed to enjoy it. I didnt text her yesterday, she texted me around 2:00 PM saying - hey hope ur haivng a great day! I texted back and then last night we talked online for 20 mins. Do u think its ok if i text her today? Or should i wait another day? She seems so interested in me so far, i feel like im risking her thinkin im not a fun guy or whatever. i dont wanna come across as boring, or cold. But at the same time i want her wanting more like u said.

People never answer the fukkin question asked - he asked should he text her every day, not, does it lead to misinterpretation. To answer: no, you should not text her EVERY day. I used to to text my GF every day, and if you think about it, obviously the value of daily messages is DECREASED! She wont be excited by you texting her - it will become commonplace. Simple. So if you DHV (lol, love abbreviations: demonstrate higher value) by scarcity - she will love u for it. I stopped texting my GF every day and would mix it up - she'll get excited when u text her less. She'll be thinking about you when you're not texting, and girls love to be thinking about a guy, wondering when he's gonna call (or text).