There's this girl I met in my uni but we study in different campuses so we don't get to see each other. She is really shy and don't seem to have many guys interested in her, she also works and studies a lot.
We talked through texts and sometimes phone and had a lot in common so a decided to ask her on a date, however as we live in a big city and I don't have a car, and also we live like 20km away we decided to go to a bar on the centre of the city that would not be too far for both of us.
The date went well, we had a good connection so it was easy to get physical. But as I had to travel the next day and she had to work (and we live far from each other) I didn't ask her to come to my place or went to hers.
The next day she sent me a cute voicemail, and we kept speaking after that for about a week, we even talked about a next date. But after this week, whenever I said something flirty she would ignore, asking me something else of continuing the previous conversation. The same thing happened when I tried to ask her on a second date, she oftentimes would say she's busy. So then I decided to stop contacting her, and we talked like once a week, I was always the one to start a conversation. And reading back the texts I sent I may have sounded needy.
Now we are almost a month without any contact, I don't know if she is just shy to start conversation, too busy or not interested at all. I was thinking maybe she doesn't want to go out because of the distance and also I don't have a car to pick her up. So I thought about contacting her just so I could know if she is still interested and move on if it is not the case.
I'd like your help to send her a text or call her. What should I say to sound confident and not needy. Also, do you guys think she might still be interested?
We talked through texts and sometimes phone and had a lot in common so a decided to ask her on a date, however as we live in a big city and I don't have a car, and also we live like 20km away we decided to go to a bar on the centre of the city that would not be too far for both of us.
The date went well, we had a good connection so it was easy to get physical. But as I had to travel the next day and she had to work (and we live far from each other) I didn't ask her to come to my place or went to hers.
The next day she sent me a cute voicemail, and we kept speaking after that for about a week, we even talked about a next date. But after this week, whenever I said something flirty she would ignore, asking me something else of continuing the previous conversation. The same thing happened when I tried to ask her on a second date, she oftentimes would say she's busy. So then I decided to stop contacting her, and we talked like once a week, I was always the one to start a conversation. And reading back the texts I sent I may have sounded needy.
Now we are almost a month without any contact, I don't know if she is just shy to start conversation, too busy or not interested at all. I was thinking maybe she doesn't want to go out because of the distance and also I don't have a car to pick her up. So I thought about contacting her just so I could know if she is still interested and move on if it is not the case.
I'd like your help to send her a text or call her. What should I say to sound confident and not needy. Also, do you guys think she might still be interested?
