"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Texting chick, 2 weeks silence-now she texts again

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earlier this month, i was texting a lady (she's got a bf but things are 'stale') with some very sexual messages, and plans to meet up for some no strings fun,when all of a sudden she went on a guilt trip and told me she was giving her bf another chance + she felt he was suspicious about her activities. i had 0 contact since.
2 weeks on, she's now re-texted me saying she can resume our activities, yet taking 1-2 days to reply to texts. Guys, should i fvcking bother with this or what? Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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only bother if you have your sexual needs taken care of elsewhere like she is.
 
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Yeah I hate these situations....

I'd say that I'd bother with it. But only on the shortest of leashes. This girl needs to meet you one-on-one somewhere. And something GOOD has to happen.

If she's gets all flaky or "I don't knowwww" about it, then that's it for her. She had more than a fair chance.
 
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Don't waste your time with a stupid cheating *****. Find a single girl.
 
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thanks guys, some good points. I only really asked, as me and the chick did seem to have a good rapport and lots of shared interests, so i felt she was worth it, even just for some fun. I'll make a concrete offer of a time and place to meet, but if it's rebuked, then fvck it, its goodbye!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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argh, im starting to get plain angry about this situation now.

Yesterday, she sent me a message starting with 'hey gorgeous boy....'(various chit chat)and ended with 'so what you been up to?' - i replied by saying how busy i'd been, bit of c+f etc,and i have not heard a thing, this was 5pm monday, its now 11pm tuesday (i'm in UK). Im now displaying afc traits like checking my phone every 20mins!

I went through this with her 2 weeks ago, and was just getting back on track, forgetting about her, then she sends a text out the blue. I dont wanna be her friend, i wanna fvck her!

I'd like to give her one more shot, can anyone suggest one final, non-desperate message i can drop to her, or any advice how to move on.....again? i wanna avoid oneitis!
 
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saab1981 said:
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I dont wanna be her friend, i wanna fvck her!
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Tell her exactly that.

saab1981 said:
I'd like to give her one more shot, can anyone suggest one final, non-desperate message
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"Hey. I don't want to be your friend so drop the 'hey whats up' messages. I'm looking for some 'no strings' fun. If that offer is still on the table then lets hook up. Otherwise, lose my number."

You'd be surprised how receptive girls are to boldness. The groundwork was already laid so you'll either get what you want or you won't. If she accepts, tell her when, where and to wear something red and sexy. Take her hand at the door and lead to the bedroom. Get it on as many times as you want and send her home. Thats it.

However, even if she accepts, she still may not show up. Thats your answer too.
 
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