Texting between dates

[zinc4]

For me guys this one has become a real thorn in my side for managing plates and potential gfs.

I for one only like to text strictly to set up the next date not to chat. However, lately and in the past girls will get offended by it and say that I'm too obviously only looking for sex. Now some will just obliviously keep texting me little nothings while I respond as close stated abd simply as possible and others use it as a test they say to see if I'm only after sex or something more.

Being labeled a player is a good thing but can also backfire in such situations..... Which leads me to one conclusion.... I freaking despise text messaging... It always conveys mixed messages abd quite frankly it triggers my ocd tendencies and texting someone I don't know very deeply is just boring as hell. With all the smart phone apps today its literally impossible to avoid.

Had a plate tell me just last night she didn't think me and her communicate well, not sure this is going any where....this was after continuelessly complaining about my lack of texting in between dates. Not wanting to fall into her bs frame, I told her sge was right and to save the drama for someone else, bye.

But she was a reliable weekly bang on Thursday nights for me while my main plate takes my Saturday and my other ones I just having little interest in seeing them again.

 

[Fireballs]

Do you tell these girls from the very start that you aren't much of a texter and prefer face to face interaction? If not make sure they know from day one.

I am the same as you however I tolerate a small amount of playful texting between dates. I think it is a must in this day and age.

 

[Fireballs]

Meh, it works for me.

The main thing is to make sure you meet her emotional needs. If this means participating in a little playful texting between dates then so be it.

 

[Obsidian]

Other than trying to manipulate the emotions of women artificially by acting disinterested, there is also a more basic reason not to text a girl. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you're texting or phoning someone every day then there is less incentive to meet in person. Potentially, it can also lead to less to talk about.

I don't see why there should be anything wrong with telling a woman flatly, "I'm not real big on texts." If she forces the issue, then you just tell her that you'll "try" to be more communicative. And then you "try" just a little bit. But mostly you keep doing the same.

One thing to note is that responding quickly to some texts, while delaying responses to (or ignoring) others, is an easy way to throw in some push-pull dynamics.