"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I got a text the other day, from the city where m exgirlfriend lives. It was a blank text, i texted who is this, another blank, And I said ok quit playing games who is this. Then they said, sorry mustve butt dialed you.

Now I know for a fact no one from this city except for my ex has my number.

Well I called it the other day, when to voice mail, it was some guy.

What are the chances you could dial a random number from out of state, in your pocket and then send this number a text, all in your pocket?
 

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Who cares, she's your ex. And you only want interested girls in your life. You only want girls who are going to make more of an effort than sending a blank text.

...right?
 

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she probably got a new phone and gave her old one to someone else. probably the guy she replaced you with.
being a woman, she's far too stupid to consider deleting all her personal info and contacts.

also, im probably wrong.

but why does it matter?
she is either playing games, or doing nothing at all.

not doing anything means NOTHING. playing games means dumb bull5hit that you shouldn't react or pay attention to.
 

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I get that you'd just want to know out of curiosity.

But if the voice mail had a guy's voice, I seriously doubt it's your ex.
Either she didn't delete her contacts as 1800 said, or it's an actual coincidence. Somehow. I don't know how you butt-dial an entire number then send a blank text.
 
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