Text responses late at night good indicator of intrest?

[cfdagola]

plain and simple if a woman responds to a text late at night on any given night 12:00am local time or later. and quickly. even if the message is mostly rhetorical. meaning you have to look into the message and come up with something to say that could initiate an actual conversation.

is that an IOI?

i've read a lot on these forums that timely responses to txt messages is just one piece of a grander puzzle. and that it is a warm IOI.

but i've also read some chicks respond because their either bored or like to text. however i was thinking this may be geared mostly towards day text. not late night.

thoughts?

 

[BeDJ]

I text my guy friends late at night, does that mean I'm secretly gay for them?

Stop over-analyzing

 

[Purefilth]

Could just be bored and bored/AW texting.

Don't read too much into it.

 

[cfdagola]

I text my guy friends late at night, does that mean I'm secretly gay for them?

Stop over-analyzing

You Quite possibly could be gay.

I've never TEXTED a guy friend PERIOD late night. Why would i do that? If i need to meet up with them somewhere i'll call. then again plans were probably made early enough in the day. however why would i be texting guy friends anyway? my guy friends are there to go to bars with or hang out. not to chit chat and text each other cute messages at 2am.

also any woman I've been uninterested in i don't even respond period. unless its a text that's either funny or interesting and even then i send back "hah" or "nice.."

Unfortunately there's a lot of conflicting information on these forums but that's what happens when you have to many heads on a body.

So what i'm gathering here is that be a response or no response it means nothing.

 

[BeDJ]

I've never TEXTED a guy friend PERIOD late night. Why would i do that? If i need to meet up with them somewhere i'll call. then again plans were probably made early enough in the day. however why would i be texting guy friends anyway? my guy friends are there to go to bars with or hang out. not to chit chat and text each other cute messages at 2am.

It's cool if you're in denial, game probably works on guys too.

 

[oxford comma]

who cares if its a sign of interest? quit searching for validation from girls. just assume everything she does is positive. does kobe care if the rim is interested in the ball? no. he just does what he knows works and swoooooosh.

 

[JohnChops]

I text my friends whenever the fvck I want. Lol if your insecure about the whole gay thing .... then uh you may need to check your orientation buddy.

Anyway you are over analyzing . Plain and simple.

 

[JohnnyStorm]

I think it can be an IOI, but tbh IOI on their own don't really mean shizzle.
My most recent girl usually texts me at random times in the night usually when she's out or bored on the internet...sure, it means she's thinking about me, but she's not texting me when she's with her friends is she?
So it's kind of crap.

Just don't get drawn in by it, stay cool and flirty with your texts and always be looking to set up a meet. You'll soon know if she's just looking for attention.

 

[Packers2010]

i think this has SOME truth to it.

my last fwb used to text me at like 8am every day for like a whole month. i was still a sleep and most of the time just left the phone as is. ( was unemployed at the time)

 

[VinceV]

you should have said "come over to my place to look at my stamp collection"

If she said yes...thats an indicator of interest

 

[Mike32ct]

Generally it's good, but not necessarily an IOI. Obviously the CONTENT of texts is much more important.

 

[Pardner]

you people over analyze everything

 

[cfdagola]

Generally it's good, but not necessarily an IOI. Obviously the CONTENT of texts is much more important.

good point.

if its. hey did you do that homework.

or

hey what you doing tonight you should come over.

two totally different topics.

however according to some in this threads. either text is "pointless" and "looking to much into things"

 

[Mike32ct]

^Yup, exactly.