"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Text Msg: "Hey"

SoSuaveDude

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2010
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
Why do girls send a one word text message of "hey." I think she's interested, and I know girls expect the guy to establish control in the convo, but I think texts like these are sometimes attention seeking, to see if youll reply with a long message and display lower value. Should I ignore it, what is a good reply to these kind of messages? I responded "hey" back lol...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Naughty Ninja

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
98
Location
Banned
SoSuaveDude said:
Why do girls send a one word text message of "hey." I think she's interested, and I know girls expect the guy to establish control in the convo, but I think texts like these are sometimes attention seeking, to see if youll reply with a long message and display lower value. Should I ignore it, what is a good reply to these kind of messages? I responded "hey" back lol...

When chicks just send "Hey" reply back with a joke: "What do gay horses eat? Haaaaaayyy!"
 

Nite

Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2012
Messages
174
Reaction score
0
Location
US
?

Lol gonna try that next time

i usually just send "hey" or "hey what's up?" back.... it's them wanting to talk to you... sometimes it's better to ignore it... I don't think girls send "hey" trying to get you to display lower value

irony was a month ago i was uncomfortable texting now i send hundreds a day...
 

ARrocket

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 6, 2008
Messages
1,411
Reaction score
37
Location
East Coast USA
SoSuaveDude said:
but I think texts like these are sometimes attention seeking, to see if youll reply with a long message and display lower value.[\QUOTE]

You're giving them way too much credit. Nobody is trying to test you.

Respond with whatever you want - that's just how chicks start conversations.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
I make her double text in that situation. She can do better than that!
 

GhengisKhan

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2013
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Initial response: "Busy right now." 3 hours later: "Nice!" She responds: "_____?"
You respond: "Oh... meant to send that to someone else... just a sec..." 5 minutes later: "Okay, what's up?"
 
Top