text msg. after you get the number

[illflytonight]

many pua have different opinions on this technique. some say wait a few days then call some say text them right away the same day. i usually wait a few days then call, but recently i have text them some random comment about our earlier discussion. do you text? what do you text. comments?

 

[wjh]

I don't call a girl whose number I just got to chat. I call to set up dates. We can talk on our dates.

Texting is even worse. What's the purpose in contacting her with a text? Just to say hi? Who cares?

Have some purpose and intent behind what you're doing. That will keep you focused on the finish line and not staggering behind lost and confused.

 

[sprint]

Look if you're confident in yourself and she can sense that it really doesn't matter what you do. Personally I'm not a big fan of text but in the right situation there's nothing too bad about it. I've texted soon after I got a number and the girl didn't go running. However, calling is usually better. The problem I've seen is them just not answering or returning your call. But if you can get them on the phone (and not freak out) you should be fine.