RBK
Senior Don Juan
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I mean it's possible but I try to avoid the situation knowingly.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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- Thread starter Machine10033
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pierce Manhammer
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He wants to, otherwise why not ask? A lot of you talk about "P inflation" like you want to improve every other man's lot in life. That I doubt is true - and it's not a valid reason to decline a good piece of trim. There are other more valid ones like "she's married", or "too much drama".
You dated this chic 18 years ago. I‘ll place my bet on her reminiscing about her old college bf and her glory days in her 20s. Now married, past her prime, most likely over weight and bored with her marriage. She casts out an indirect offer to see if she can hook you for an ego boost and some attention. Maybe she doesn’t want to smash at all and honestly wants to “catch up.” Women don’t realize that guys don’t care to spend much energy on fruitless exchanges with women they are not fvcking. You might spend the weekend hearing about all the stuff her husband does and how great he is while you sit there thinking, “I thought we were going to smash or did I miss read this whole thing?”