"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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sent some txt messages back and forth
I said aww thats cute I made you angry

she said

"yes I am angry! never text me back unless you want to pay the phone bill"

:shrugs:

idunno a few txt messages ago she said I was hot lol

I hate playing phone games lol

should I go with my gut instinct and not text her?

she doesn't mean anything to me, but since its a phone I can't tell if she is trying to brush me off or trying to see if Im not willing to walk away

advice anyone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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harryg said:
sent some txt messages back and forth
I said aww thats cute I made you angry

she said

"yes I am angry! never text me back unless you want to pay the phone bill"

:shrugs:

idunno a few txt messages ago she said I was hot lol

I hate playing phone games lol

should I go with my gut instinct and not text her?

she doesn't mean anything to me, but since its a phone I can't tell if she is trying to brush me off or trying to see if Im not willing to walk away

advice anyone?
Be C&F about it.

"Wow, fiesty, nice, like it. Are you always like that? Or only with guys you're attracted to?"
 

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well she said don't text back, if I text back, thats telegraphing interest

am I right?
 

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harryg said:
well she said don't text back, if I text back, thats telegraphing interest

am I right?
uh not really. just telegraphs that you're amusing yourself with her.

there was a girl in college that i annoyed the hell out of... and i just kept on doing it because it was so amusing and her reactions to me were awesome (she was a b1tch from the start so i wasn't just picking on some poor girl). I sure as hell wasn't interested in her though.
 

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hmm, well

I read the art of seduction, I found her personality type, I found out she likes innocent guys, so I acted innocent, she ate it up she threw her phone number at me, and initiated a date. I said something like can we go to the mall and get an icecream cone, and she was all over it.

so I just texted back

"can we still get an ice cream cone?"

lol, I know this isn't part of "the game", but like I said she doesn't matter to me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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technology is annoying, because it puts a barrier between people, you can't see whats really going on, and the thing that annoys me the most is the fact they can block you just like that, or hang up, or not text back, where in a social situation if you just act like you are willing to walk away, they will stick to you.

idunno was that a rant?
 

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harryg said:
technology is annoying, because it puts a barrier between people, you can't see whats really going on, and the thing that annoys me the most is the fact they can block you just like that, or hang up, or not text back, where in a social situation if you just act like you are willing to walk away, they will stick to you.

idunno was that a rant?
Nah,

Technology can be annoying, and can be hard to work with, but they are also massive tools for meeting new women, if you do it right.

No one can deny that.
 
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