"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Text i sent that got no reply

Raoul Duke

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Do you think this was a crappy text i thought it was quite good but have had no reply whatsoever!

"Listen, I wanna take you out Wednesday nite hows that fly wit you?"

I thought that was quite DJ but doesnt seem to have worked. I know this girls really intersted just cant figure this one out, your suggestions/critism would be very much appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tosh

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"Wednesday. Fleet Center. 8pm. Don't be late"
 

Warlord

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I wouldn't care too much about it, try using the phone though next time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Badmannaz

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i learned my lesson i don't text girls anymore...that tells me something about a girls insecurities and confidence when she can't even talk to you...

And in your case it seems like the same thing she hasn't even responded!! it gives them time to think and be secure if you would have asked in person aboutthat she would have probably gave you a better awnser than not awnsering.
 
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