"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Text her again?

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Alright guys looking for some advice.

I met a girl last Saturday and exchanged numbers, didn't spend too long with her maybe 30mins.

Text her on Tuesday and had a bit of banter with her, turns out that i'm going to see a DJ in the City she lives in this Saturday... She is too busy to head out as she is doing her dissertation for University.

She asked me where i am staying and I joked that i was staying at hers. She just laughed this off.

The conversation ended with me saying that i'll see her on Saturday night.

What would you do tonight if she doesn't text me inviting round? Would you text her again (and risk looking desperate) or do nothing and enjoy the night out with my friends?

Any advice?

Cheers InVader x
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Firstly enjoy night out with friends. You can always text her if you want to hang out with her. Depends if you could meet her again. If you can't you should text.
 
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Is her dissertation tomorrow? If so, leave her alone.

If not, well, she can't really text you tonight to come over. She just barely met you and would have to be a major wh0re to do that.

While having fun out with your friends tonight, send her a text inviting her to join you guys for a bit for a study break or some ****e. You need to build a little more rapport with her.
 
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There is a chance i could meet her again as she is from the town i live in, she is studying in the city that i'm heading to tonight.

I'm reluctant to to text her as it may seem predictable and desperate, but know that if i dont then she probably wont contact me.

I've only met her the and only got her number so i know that if i wait too long i could miss my chance...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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