"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Text game?

Stallionstud

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whats the best way to maintain texts with moderate to low interest early 20’s girls in between dates without looking desperate. ?
I feel like they are crazy distracted by snap chat and will literally forget about your ass. Or ultimately run cold indifferent if left to thier own.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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whats the best way to maintain texts with moderate to low interest early 20’s girls in between dates without looking desperate. ?
I feel like they are crazy distracted by snap chat and will literally forget about your ass. Or ultimately run cold indifferent if left to thier own.
You don't. You find other women who are highly interested and stop wasting your time with low interest women.

You should be working to get at least 3 women who you are dating/banging(ie high interest) and then work on upgrading from there or increasing the number
 
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