"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Text game

Masked_angel

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Sunday:
So I got this hot girls number, indeed I asked for her msn, but the buss came and she said. "You don't have any time, take my number instead..":cool:

Monday:

Time: 10.00 pm
She: Watch channel 1

Tuesday

Time: 12.43 am
M_A : What was on channel 1?

Time: 12.51 am
She: Ladies football :D

Time: 12.51
She: In iran

Time: 13.51 am
M_A: ha, okey. By the way how adventurous are you from 1 to 27966?

Time: 13.52 am
She: Adventoures HAHAHA?

Time: 14.26 am
M_A: Obs, must have mixed you up with a cool girl :cool:

Time: 14.27 am
She: HAHAHAHA Oh-no

Time: 17.10 am
M_A: haha, do you like horror movies?

Time: 17.16 am
She: yea I love :D

Time: 17.29 am
M_A: There is this new horror movie in 3D coming up next week, Friday. I’m going to see it, wanna join?

Time: 18.00 am
She: I can't I'm going to my friends show

Time: 18.07 am
M_A: Naww.. what a pity, because we both know that you would have 10 times more fun with me.


Time: 18.09 am
She: HAHAHAHA cool he is :D

Time: 18.31 am
Applauses, first time you said something smart.. Your reward? A meeting with me next week Saturday.:cool:

Time: 18.33 am
She: HAHAHAHA :D

Time: 18.41 am
M_A: Right on

Time: 18.43 am
She: haha

Thereafter a stopped messanging and focusing on her.

Conclusion

Conclusion
I so much want to meet her, she is so hot. But the more time I invest on her the more it feels like Im going back to AFC. Even thou she was the first person contacting me, I can’t even get her to meet me. I mostly get "hahaha" as an answer. :crazy:


Perhaps this girl think of me more like the entertainment guy and that's why she gave her number out. Still I don’t understand why she keeps messaging me “haha”. Perhaps if I wait, she’ll send me a random message for seeking approval?

What do you guys think? Otherwise, I think I handled this text game more like a Don juan than a chump.

Ps: I has gone two days and she haven't contacted me. I'll wait one week, thereafter i'll delete her number.

Best Regards

Masked_angel
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FairShake

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If the girl isn't in to you (and I'm guessing she is not) then ****y and funny just means you're a clown to her. Worthy of a couple funny conversations but not of f-ing.

That's just how it is unfortunately. Move on.
 

Masked_angel

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It has been 2 weeks, no message and her number is deleted.

Conclusion:
She wasn't interested.
 
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