Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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dng

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Hey guys

I met a HB7 in my apartment last week. I felt that she liked me. We exchanged texts and flirting. But I had to leave the town for 4 days.

I did not call or text her during that time.

I tried to call her and she did not respond today . So I texted her

me: "play hard to get already? When you stop being nerd write me back."

Her: "I don't mean to be rude but I just started dating someone and it's kind

of serious. Hope you understand."

What the ****?

How should I respond to this text?

Thanks bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warrior74

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You shouldn't respond to it. It's over, next, move on. Done.
 

christz

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how do you respond?

LOL

what's happened to sosuave?
 

Kevin Feng

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You didn't do anything wrong at all.

Just realize that in pick up, you're going to have losses. It's just part of the game. Even the best in the world Mystery and Matador get blown out of sets. It's just the nature of the beast. Some girls just are NOT looking for anything at the present moment.

You didn't screw up anywhere by any means. The most important thing for you to do at this point is to maintain your value.

Move on, meet new women, and don't see this as an entire loss. Keep her around, she may and probably will break up with this guy sooner or later, and you'll be there when she does.

-Kevin
 
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