"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Text Game

Mr.Fantastic

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So i'm wondering what sorts of things have you guys successfully texted girls.

Im talking about:

setting up day 2's.

Random texts - just to stay in contact

Text's to set up dates

texts when they are being flakey


basically, any good stuff that you have and like to text girls would be appreciated, I want to get a bank of 'stock' texts that I can bang off to girls, for it seems that you need to say similar sorts of things to them, after you have met them, setting up dates etc...****ey n funny?


ooh man, lol, I've just come up with a new technique...****NEY AND FUNNY!!

'allo luv, nice set of marackers, wanna come up the apples n pears after eastenders?''
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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COD

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texts are for private conversations when in public or you cant really talk.

Oversued and not a substitute for a voice..........but if you gotta........

Attach a silly nic name to a the text so that she knows its you and are making slight fun of her "HEY ALL TALK CHIC".

I use this one a lot "ANSWER YOUR PHONE B ITCH".........and then I call her.

Texts are for quick answers (close ended questions) YES/NO.

Too many people using them to avoid verbal communication, some even break up with a text to avoid confrontation.

-Keep it short, simple and use it as a reminder of YOUR presence. Like you could say "HEY Saturday night is your birthday girl........man you are getting old"

Now the near future........with faster mobile net connections.......I am sure they will perfect video phones so we will hear the phrase "turn on your camera so I can see whom I am talking with".

My sticky point.........dont ever use it as your primary form of communication.
 

noirsake

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I think txting is great. Don't forget to call now and then. But yeah I text my girl more than I do call. She doesn't like talking on the phone and she's busy most of the time (she's honestly busy) so I drop a text and that works fine. Most of the things I do to keep in contact is I send a message when something happens or whatever. Like something that happens in your day like..."Oh damn, I almost got in a wreck" or "haha I just saw something that reminded me off such and such" keep it interesting. ABSOLUTELY NO "hey whats up?" or any open questions like that.
 

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Honestly, I like texting a lot -- it's a great way to keep IL high if used correctly.

There's just a few simple rules to follow if you're trying to use texting to game a girl:

1. Rarely be serious with a text message -- save serious conversation for in person. Responses should always be either playful or funny.

2. Never, under any circumstance, send 2 messages in a row without a response in between.

3. Never use them as a substitute for conversation -- which should never be an issue if you're following Rule #1.

4. Never say anything you don't want recorded or that might get you in trouble at some later date (fun fact: many wireless providers can access a log of your text messages, incoming and outgoing, and will turn those records over to law enforcement or other parties if they are properly subpoenaed).

5. Never respond immediately to a text, especially early on in a relationship. Doing so establishes an expectation that you are at her beck and call, which puts control in her hands.
 
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