"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Text game - this can help a lot of guys!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I like calling and am comfortable talking to chicks I haven't met yet on the phone. And some chicks made it a point that they had to talk to the guy on the phone before hand. Others, however, were more comfortable just texting and would rather wait to talk to the guy when they meet up, face to face. To me, it really doesn't matter though, when I was heavy into online dating, I'd sometimes have three or four dates set up a week. I screened them enough through their profile and messages. It wasn't necessary to talk to ALL of them on the phone. I'll talk to them when we meet up for a drink.J Roc said: