"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Text game has gotten ridiculous

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheGambino

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It seems that girls test us in textgame and I'm no good in it I'd rather not text em at all like everyone says only to set up dates
 

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Haha, I suck at text game. Pretty sure I've blew at least 2-3 opportunities trying to be funny over text with a girl. Now I just avoid the phone period with women unless I'm setting dates.
 

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I hate text game, it sucks. So much of communicating is based of how you sound. Rather just call them if I am trying to convince them of something.
 

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Hah, the worst is when they send you something with sexual innuendo and you have to follow up. I'm always like "uhhhhhhhhhhhhh, sounds good to me!!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheGambino

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Renegade same for me they were interested I fcked up trying to be funny I was enjoying myself lol but she didn't respond that well while irl she would laugh I'm sure.. So f*ck that whatsapp is a disaster they keep chatting and I fck up at a certain point where I feel our texts are too boring
 

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Is anyone truly good at the text game though?

Girls always have the way to misinterpret texts. It's so rare to really nail humor.

Good text game is just super quick and brief conversations to set up actual dates.
 

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Before Sosuave I didn't analyze anything accept my bank account and yes I developed that sh*t myself
 

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I can compare, I didn't start texting till a few years ago. $hit used to Piss me off, that's like the whole reason I came to this place.

Find a writers voice, make statements and commands, be vague and make them wonder its game with words. Don't take it too seriously, I've lost some great tail that way.

I think its funny that they time their texts in 15-20-30-45 minute intervals universally. I've had a few who knew about game and still rationalized their style.

It's fun to fvck with em via text too. Show em you got balls, tell em off! Put their drama brains into overdrive, they'll still be a kitten when you meet again.

I found okcupid hook ups tightened my text game hardcore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The morning after....

You need to watch the six series video on that site .."the morning after.." it is hilarious in how women and men communicate.....
 

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denverfan110 said:
Is anyone truly good at the text game though?

Girls always have the way to misinterpret texts. It's so rare to really nail humor.

Good text game is just super quick and brief conversations to set up actual dates.
I'm very good at using it to build sexual chemistry and establish that I'm not just an average guy (personality wise)... and then im very good at getting a woman to come over my house using it.

But....

It's a terrible long term plan for communication. I don't like for girls ive already fvcked to get comfortable communicating with me through it. It's better that she begins to miss you rather than having instant access to you.

I didn't always practice this, and I know for a fact that over-texting ended a few of my relationships prematurely. But time has taught me well.
 
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