"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ljm

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Hi guys

Received a text message from this girl i was seeing not long ago. Things went distant between us then she eventually got a bf.

Last time we spoke i texted her saying i thought you didnt want a relationship...and now you are in one(sounds kind of desperate but aw well fuk it).

That was 2 weeks ago. Havent spoke since and 2day she sends this text message to me.




I need to ask u something and want u to be totally honest with me. It may be awkward between us after this but i have 2 knowhow you feel. I've kept it in for a while now but its finally time to be straight up and just confront you. I hope this doesn't ruin the friendship we have, i just need 2 know and i don't seeany other way i could get over this. Just doesn't seem fair if i don't get an answer. I want youto tell me truthfully please, no matter what! But what would you choose sprite or 7up?




Anyway guys what do you think was up with this sh1t? Just her trying 2 fuk with my head? I think shes just testing to see if i will keep in contact with her basically her just testing the water between us...not 2 sure though...........

My mate says 2 just send a text back saying "what would i choose, whatever "goes down" better.

What do you guys think shes up 2, how would u take this and how would u reply....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bluemanson

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i would not reply, i would just delete the message and forget bout her, she is F***ing with you.
 

Scars

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Poor little attention wh0re lost all the self validation she got from your attention and needs some reassurance that you still like her. Ignore it and keep spinning other plates my friend.
 

Hughman

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Don't reply, or reply with another drink! 'I don't drink that stuff, I prefer xyz'
 

ljm

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Thanks for the replies guys,

Anyway just finished up at the gym and got a missed call from her. Still havent returned opr texted back. Might reply tomorrow with Hughman's response....if i feel like it, cheers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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scribblec

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forget this girl how can u take anyone seriously when they tell you there not ready for a relationship and then a week later she has some next guys **** in her mouth.

shes playing games with you if she was interested she would be with you right now
all these texts are just her looking for validation **** it and ignore the slut
 

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Your best reply is obviously not to reply anything.

She could be sending you this as a casual joke text message to friends or what or she can be using this as a way to talk to you.

She is just somehow trying to get a response from you. And your job here is not to feed her ego with it so

1. Best not to respond.

2. If you think that you cant' live without responding like how you can't live without Big Macs and Coke then you can send her anything which does not have any tone with it.

Goes like "I see." or "Okay." Or whatever that you can think of. She feeds on your emotions for her ego.
 

usscrum

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that is a chain text message she didn't even write it. it is supposed to be a joke. dont bother replying to it
 

Count Chocola

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usscrum said:
that is a chain text message she didn't even write it. it is supposed to be a joke. dont bother replying to it
Don't reply to it. Its a chain message, the best reply is to not reply.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nightcrawler

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Reply with "neither lol" and see where it goes from there. The worst that could happen is that she doesn't reply and deletes your phone number.

In the best scenario it could lead to something.

you have absolutely nothing to lose by replying.
 

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lmfao

i'm stealing that text..i'll use better grammar though

but shes an attention wh0re bro, don't reply.

have some self respect. now go out and start gaming other girls.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Sounds like you've got a mean spirited AW on your hands. Copy and pasted text message that she probably sent out to every guy that she's recently rejected. You'd be a fool for replying to this.
 

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That's a long ass text.

Don't reply.

Drink some red bull and go out.
 

PerfectCircle

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This is obviously a chain letter which most people dont seem to have spotted or pointed out. IT WAS NOT CREATED BY HER.

This is just a dumb joke. MY ex sent me a chain letter much like this one, after 8 MONTHS of silence between us two. Obviously to spark something for her own entertainment. I DID NOT REPLY I SUGGEST YOU DO THE SAME.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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