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Text convo

Biggie

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Ok so i know everyone hates text conversations but i just wanted to share this one and see what y'all think. A little background: I've known this girl since high school, always had a thing for her. She never really had a thing for me, but now, around 5 years later there seems to be sexual tension between us and we have kissed and i've seen her boobs. Anyway here's the convo. Also we were both kinda buzzed during this convo. We were texting because my other friend was in the car with us.

Me: Yeah you'd be screaming all night ;-)
Her: Nooooo way. maybe... lol
Me: I dunno if you could handle me though.
Her: HA we'll see if you live up to my standards mister.
Me: Well i've heard nothing but good things from numerous people ;-)
Her: Biggie.....i've never gotten any negative feedback. and they always come back for more ;-)
Me: i look forward to it. and we'll probably be drunk again which will add to the greatness.
Her: i'm assuming we'd both be pretty trashed!
Me: But of course


So yeah that's the convo we had. I thought it worked out well cuz before that everything that was said between us was sexual and about her masturbating and stuff lol. So what do you guys think?
 

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