"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Text a girl and ask her to "Tap That"

Ice882

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hahahaha I tried it. Good results overall--not a fail--she was playful and seemed interested but when I pushed it she said no, which is understandable since we're both in high school.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I actually just tried something similar with some random chick on myspace and got a number so....we'll see...

I feel like an Idiot lol
 

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how do you guys know in that thread those posters didnt make up the conversations? this can work but i see it also back firing. you have to be at a certain level to pull it off
 

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People remember to POST YOUR CONVERSATIONS don't just say that you tried it! Haha it's always good for a laugh :D

UPDATE: I'm still talking to the first girl.;)

The next girl (Megan) ---

Me - Ayyy girl when you gonna let me tap dat?
Her - Who is this? Obvi not (HolyG)
Me - Hahaha it is me loser :p
Her - LOL
Me - So what are u up to? Can I come over
Her - Hmmm...I'm not easy, but you should show up to my party Friday



DAMN didn't even know she was throwing a party...be back with results from that one
 

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I did this to a few, I've seen it on a few other forums.

Its worked, lol.

This one chicks like you bet when i see you next.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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double post

but I read the other thread and i think i know the dilemma. Is this what guys consider "having balls?"

This is great for a laugh and probably takes a brave soul to pull it off on one of his girl friends, but I thought "having balls" was being confident within yourself to show your intentions to a girl and not give a sh1t, not just being able to blurt out a canned line out of nowhere

Blurting out random lines like this is what a lot of guys do, and a lot of them consider this actually "talking" to girls. While it can work, it's not for the faint of skill to try and use often lol
 

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I cant post conversations, cuz every time I've done it, I got no responce whatsoever. Then the next time I run into them they ask what that was all about. I tell them "you'll never know now, will you?"
 

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Yo , i tried it twice but forgot to post her until i saw this thread again.

Me: Hey party animal
HB: Hey whats up??
Me: I just wanted to ask you something.
HB: wattttt ?
Me: When you gonna let me tap that ?
HB: LOL you crazy
Me: today ? tomorrow ?
HB: we'll see

Than we got stuck in a random conversation. I must tell that i made out with her in the bar before sending this text.

Me: hey , when are you going to let me tap that ?????
HB: in the next life
Me: Are you sure ?
Hb: lol why this question ?
Me: It just popped in my mind.
Hb: lol , youre funny

bllah bllah boring conversation.
 

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This girl got a facebook quiz results that said " You should date Asians" and so i commented under the test

Me: So when you gunna let me tap that?
her: hahahaha too funny!!!
her: Saturday??


lol she is my friend's ex and i dont know if he still has feelings for her. plus, i dont know if shes just joking or not, but i will find out when we hang out saturday
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Doing it right now. Gonna post results when I get them; jeeze I'm so anxious and jittery.

Me:Hey kbaybay
Her: haha why hello there! =)
Me:I got a question
Her: spill :)
Me:When you gonna let me tap that?
Her:when am i gunna let you have sex with me? lol is that what your asking?
Me:yup
Her:haha...why would you want to?
Me:thats not the answer I'm looking for.
Her:haha wellll im asking why would you to with me?
Me:because were human it's what we do.
Her:haha well im still a virgin and im not looking to just hook up with just anyone...if i do ill be in a relationship and be with some1 i really care about.
Me:Then were gonna properly hang out sometime. Hows that sound.
Her:Friday good?
Me:For sure

More to come...
 

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tried it with a girl i met at a party a little while ago... she wasn't sure how to answer but after talking to her she sped up breaking up with her boyfriend and its looking good.
 

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[Random conversation first]
Me: Hey so when you gonna let me tap that ass?
Her: lol way to be blunt [name]
Me: ****, why the hell does everyone keep saying that to me lately!?
Her: Haha it's OK we love you anyways
Me: Of course you do. But you still didn't answer my question. I'm a busy man, girl, I ain't got all night.
Her: If I really must, no. I'm sorry but I just don't sleep around.

Some other random crap. I didn't really want her or I would have tried harder. Not sure what I would have done if she said yes :|

Will try again on some real plates some other time.
 

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Did this to a girl I talked to once in a while on Myspace, and knew nothing was happenin between us so just decided to do it to get a laugh haha. Didn't get a response tho =/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This sounds genius.

I'm thinking of trying it with a girl I used to bang in HS that I talk to on FB. My only worry is that she is friends with alot of other girls I am friends of, and she would gossip to them all and make me look like some desperate ahole.
 
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I just sent this to my ex asking when she will let me tap that again.

No response but I bet she laughed at least.
 
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she replied

"oh you just dont know...."

I guess she is trying to keep me guessing or something. What the hell does that mean?
 
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