"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Texas Mom Who Fatally Shot Daughters Had BPD Disorder

Does she have BPD?

  • Yes

    Votes: 3 60.0%
  • No

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I Don't Know

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • What's BPD?

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    5

Speculator E

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When I first heard this story, I suspected BPD. The symptoms are in this article:

https://www.buzzfeed.com/davidmack/texas-mom-murder

Christy Sheats, 42, convened a family meeting at her home in Katy Friday afternoon with her 45-year-old husband, Jason, and daughters Taylor, 22, and Madison, 17.

Her husband told police he thought his wife called the meeting “to discuss the decision to file for a divorce,” the Fort Bend County Sheriff’s Office said Wednesday.

Instead, she opened fire on her daughters using a .38-caliber handgun.
The reason why she shot her daughters was because she wanted her husband to suffer for filing a divorce which is a classic BPD symptom of abandonment. Lesson learn from this is the extreme example of Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD is not a joke disease.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Julian

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crazy *****. dad should have had his 45 with him
 

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Well of course she was mad he filed for divorce, that's the woman's job not the man's. <smirk>
 
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