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Texas cop vows to give ‘everyone’ a ticket after she didn’t get ‘action’ the night before

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A Texas cop vowed to give “everyone” a ticket after she didn’t get laid the night before, according to a since-deleted viral TikTok.


The post showed uniformed Harris County Constable Precinct 5 Deputy Jennifer Escalera writing on a notepad with the caption, “Didn’t get cracked last night so everyone is getting a ticket” — a nod to her apparently unfulfilling sex life.

The cop blurred parts of her uniform but left her nametag visible in her post.

The incident is under investigation, according to Fox 26.

“Our administration is aware and internal affairs has opened an investigation. We have no other comment at this time,” the constable’s office said

Escalera was sworn into the force in September 2021, according to a previous Facebook post from the precinct.

The female cop’s TikTok account features several posts showing her in uniform. She also posts about being a mom.

One of the posts shows Escalera getting ready “to work as a female Police Officer” as the text across the screen reads, “contemplating if I really need this job, knowing that I do.”

Residents of the Texas precinct were outraged over some of the cop’s posts.

“I think it’s really inappropriate and disrespectful,” resident Alex Fitch told Fox 26.

“Not as much distrust, but you can’t rely on them. It makes them look unprofessional when they start posting videos like that. You can’t take them seriously,” Fitch said.

“Then they wonder why, when you see them, they say, ‘Why don’t you respect me?’ or, ‘Why are you talking to me like that?’ Well, you don’t treat yourself like a woman, and you ain’t treating yourself like a police officer.”

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My thoughts: I can’t believe she is not getting laid on a regular basis. She looks pretty good. But then I read that she is a mom and understand why men don’t want to get with her, Being a mom destroys the male fantasy, just like a woman being divorced, being overweight, being over 30, or being a slut, destroys the male fantasy.

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Being a mom destroys the male fantasy
It does for childless men. Men with children might be fine with meeting moms in the social circle, usually through having children in the same activities. That's how a lot of affairs for married people start or how single dads and single moms end up getting together.

woman being divorced, being over 30
Both women 30+ and divorced women often have zero problems attracting men.
 

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Both women 30+ and divorced women often have zero problems attracting men.
“Attraction” is a strong word. A man usually gets with a woman over 30 or a divorced woman for companionship and / or to be his maid / nurse. He generally isn’t looking for a 30+ or divorced woman to give him a bunch of children and start a big family with.

Now for sex or short term relationship, yes, a man will take almost anything as long as their is some attraction. But for commitment? Start a family? There are conditions.

Note: Generally when we talk about what men are looking for in a woman, we are talking about childless men who want a family with an attractive woman, Once it’s a single dad or a man who doesn’t want kids, or the woman is older, a single mom, or overweight, or ugly, the whole conversation changes.
 

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A man usually gets with a woman over 30 or a divorced woman for companionship and / or to be his maid / nurse. He generally isn’t looking for a 30+ or divorced woman to give him a bunch of children and start a big family with.
Companionship and sex are pressing issues for many men these days.

But for commitment?
There are guys out there committing to single moms, older women, etc.

With Millennials aging and having fewer/no children, there are plenty of older Millennial childless men in their late 30s/early 40s who will commit to similarly aged childless women. These arrangements are not likely to produce future children.
 

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No matter how hot a single mum is, when she starts injecting her children more and more into the relationship it’s a boner destroyer and the end of the relationship isn’t too far away.

Nothing shrivels your balls more than the thought of having to financially provide for or spend lots of time with someone else’s child (especially if you have your own children).
 

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She should give guys an option in their tickets to crack her rather than paying for, or disputing the ticket.
 

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Who actually cares if you are looking to fvck whether a woman has a kid or not?

She either looks good and you want to fvck or you don't.

These after the fact gymnastics people are trying to go thru seem kind silly.
 

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I am more shocked that this is what constitutes as "journalism" now days. No wonder they will be replaced by AI soon.

All good journalist are starting to head to companies that are behind paywalls.
 

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Textbook displacement:

Someone's displeased about one aspect of their life, and takes that out on someone who's not remotely connected to the subject of their displeasure. In a twisted sense, she deserves kudos for being honest enough to admit to it
 

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I am more shocked that this is what constitutes as "journalism" now days. No wonder they will be replaced by AI soon.

All good journalist are starting to head to companies that are behind paywalls.
Journalism has changed a lot with the rise of the internet.

A lot of people have stopped majoring in Journalism in colleges due to the changes within media in the last 10-20 years. Communication majors (a secondary source for media employment) don't want to work in legacy media anymore. They would rather be social media influencers/content creators.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Journalism has changed a lot with the rise of the internet.

A lot of people have stopped majoring in Journalism in colleges due to the changes within media in the last 10-20 years. Communication majors (a secondary source for media employment) don't want to work in legacy media anymore. They would rather be social media influencers/content creators.
Exactly, and this shift is a prime example of why society is in the state it’s in. Instead of seeking out well-researched, fact-checked journalism, people gravitate toward podcasts or influencers that just reinforce their existing biases.
 

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You can take her statement as "she rarely gets laid" or "she has a boyfriend but they didn't have sex last night and she's now in a bad mood because they didn't".

I'm quite sure it has zero to do with the inability to get laid if she so chooses.
 

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I'm quite sure it has zero to do with the inability to get laid if she so chooses.
Most women under menopause age can get laid without much difficulty.

You can take her statement as "she rarely gets laid" or "she has a boyfriend but they didn't have sex last night and she's now in a bad mood because they didn't".
My sense would be that it is closer to the 2nd. She likely didn't get laid with a boyfriend or a situationship guy.

Exactly, and this shift is a prime example of why society is in the state it’s in. Instead of seeking out well-researched, fact-checked journalism, people gravitate toward podcasts or influencers that just reinforce their existing biases.
It's important to think about the changes in legacy media since the 2000s.

Prior to the rise of the internet, journalists in print/TV/radio had to take low paying jobs in smaller markets and work their way into bigger markets. Even in the late 20th Century, this wasn't that good of a model and it weeded out a lot of people. A print journalist in a media market of under 100,000 people was going to have a difficult time making ends meet. Now, it's even worse.

The revenue models for legacy media have changed too. Newspapers lost their classified revenues for jobs and people selling stuff to the internet. Magazines lost subscribers. Fewer people stopping watching their local TV newscasts. Cable TV news has had issues drawing an audience with loss of cable subscribers.

Legacy media outlets have websites and most don't replace the revenue sources they had prior to the boom in high speed internet subscriptions, social media, and smartphones during the past 20 years.
 
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Most women under menopause age can get laid without much difficulty.



My sense would be that it is closer to the 2nd. She likely didn't get laid with a boyfriend or a situationship guy.
What do women crave the most? Attention.

This whole debacle might just be because she hasn’t been getting enough of it lately, so now she’s making something up to stir the pot and get people talking.


If the issue was getting laid, it would be due to other factors such as not having time to go out, being stuck in a routine, poor social circles, or simply not putting herself in the right environments. Being a mom or over 30 would be really low on the list.
 

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A Texas cop vowed to give “everyone” a ticket after she didn’t get laid the night before, according to a since-deleted viral TikTok.


The post showed uniformed Harris County Constable Precinct 5 Deputy Jennifer Escalera writing on a notepad with the caption, “Didn’t get cracked last night so everyone is getting a ticket” — a nod to her apparently unfulfilling sex life.

The cop blurred parts of her uniform but left her nametag visible in her post.

The incident is under investigation, according to Fox 26.

“Our administration is aware and internal affairs has opened an investigation. We have no other comment at this time,” the constable’s office said

Escalera was sworn into the force in September 2021, according to a previous Facebook post from the precinct.

The female cop’s TikTok account features several posts showing her in uniform. She also posts about being a mom.

One of the posts shows Escalera getting ready “to work as a female Police Officer” as the text across the screen reads, “contemplating if I really need this job, knowing that I do.”

Residents of the Texas precinct were outraged over some of the cop’s posts.

“I think it’s really inappropriate and disrespectful,” resident Alex Fitch told Fox 26.

“Not as much distrust, but you can’t rely on them. It makes them look unprofessional when they start posting videos like that. You can’t take them seriously,” Fitch said.

“Then they wonder why, when you see them, they say, ‘Why don’t you respect me?’ or, ‘Why are you talking to me like that?’ Well, you don’t treat yourself like a woman, and you ain’t treating yourself like a police officer.”

————————

My thoughts: I can’t believe she is not getting laid on a regular basis. She looks pretty good. But then I read that she is a mom and understand why men don’t want to get with her, Being a mom destroys the male fantasy, just like a woman being divorced, being overweight, being over 30, or being a slut, destroys the male fantasy.

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She has a very cute - dare I say exceptionally good - face, but I can't tell how fat she it - but it doesn't look like she's that fat. There has got to be some incel-tier man that would hit that as much as he could get, but she probably wants a Chadriguez.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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