"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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**** Tests? Are they really subconcious?

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I'm starting to wonder.

I've taken out three girls the past two months, and all of them have shown signs of **** tests, typical of course considering they are woman.

However, the other night one of them confessed that she was confused about me.

I asked her what she meant, and the next line that came out of her mouth shocked the hell out of me...

"I dunno, I've been running all of these tests on you, and most of the time it seems like you just don't even care enough about me. You don't get jealous or anything if I mention me and another guy, and other stuff. I just don't understand it."

All three of these chicks are in high school. The one that confessed to me that she ran tests on me is a HB 9. So now I am starting to wonder, are these tests really subconcious? I really am uncertain at this point.

If anyone has any experiences with a girl coming out and openly confessing that she has tested you, please add your comments.

(By the way, I nexted her)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone who thinks that those "tests" that women throw at you are subconscious, are very naive. Women know exactly what they're doing.
 
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You see ill give you a hint

THIS IS WHATS WRONG WITH THIS FORUM AND BIBLE ETC....

The movie "Catch me if you can said it best" :

"The Yankees win the world series because their oponents can't keep their eyes of the stripes"

Dont pay attention to such insignificant things. Girls would do all taht kind of **** more conciously than unconciously but what does it matter. The moment you pay attention to that crap you losse track of whats really important.

Or actually "Searching for Forrester" the movie mentioned something about asking questions that matter to you and you can benefit from.....

Why do you care if she did this subconciously or not ..can you prove it? No .Can they lie Yes..can you benefit from it >>>NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
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Originally posted by italostud
Anyone who thinks that those "tests" that women throw at you are subconscious, are very naive. Women know exactly what they're doing.
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I agree with you, but I've done searches on this board, and more times than not many posters refer to them as "unconscious tests."

I've noticed it's a majority of the people on these boards as well.
 
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Re: You see ill give you a hint

Originally posted by tiburonIII

Or actually "Searching for Forrester" the movie mentioned something about asking questions that matter to you and you can benefit from.....


You mean "Finding Forester"?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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in high school, the girls are usually young and still learning that typical female behaviour, so any sh!t tests she throws at you will be pre-meditated and intentional.

older girls have a more developed mind when it comes to that, and can test guys without even thinking about it, or realizing they've done it.

but i mean, who cares if it's intentional or not? if you feel like the girl is testing you, don't waste your time wondering how to pass these tests and sh!t. like gunwitch said, it's not a sh!t test, it's just sh!t coming out of her mouth. move on and find a more mature girl.
 
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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
in high school, the girls are usually young and still learning that typical female behaviour, so any sh!t tests she throws at you will be pre-meditated and intentional.

older girls have a more developed mind when it comes to that, and can test guys without even thinking about it, or realizing they've done it.

but i mean, who cares if it's intentional or not? if you feel like the girl is testing you, don't waste your time wondering how to pass these tests and sh!t. like gunwitch said, it's not a sh!t test, it's just sh!t coming out of her mouth. move on and find a more mature girl.
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Which is what I did, I was just surprised that she actually came out and told me she was running tests. Pretty immature ****...
 
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I dont see how its immature, I run tests on girls. Hell Anti-Dumps machine is built off of tests. How is running tests so immature, Id rather know what Im in for now then find out 5 years down the road that the girl was an uncaring selfish *****.

And btw, I believe she was being honest with you when she told you about the tests, its seems like you had her on the fence and that was her last resort. I think you should have stuck it out.
 
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YES THEY KNOW THEY ARE TESTING YOU

MindOverMatter
in high school, the girls are usually young and still learning that typical female behaviour, so any sh!t tests she throws at you will be pre-meditated and intentional.

Cleo . Cosmo. Elle. Girlfriend. all the magazines teenage girls read say HOW TO MAKE A GUY DO ANYTHING YOU WANT

by the time these chicks are 17 they have a PHD in how to manipulate a man


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you stupid f_cks... when a girl tests you she wants to see if you are either good enough for her or wants to see how far she can bend with you.

and that tidbit about more experienced girls is right but only because she tests all the time that it becomes unconcious to her.

shoots lightning bolts at some negroes.
 
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