"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tests and Demands

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Long story short , took my girls Vcard and she is recently starting to go crazy. She was super religious so my guess is she really likes/loves me ( well for now lool).
Anyways she started getting REALLY possessive and it's clingy. Since last week she started to throw **** tests about my social media. I don't have Facebook or instagram ; I mainly use snapchat and twitter. Recently she started talking about the amount of females that follow me and how I should delete my account. I figured it's a **** test because I barely tweet ; maybe once a week. She doesn't even have twitter WTF LOOL

But how do I play my next card , she uses " You care about social media more than your girl "

I just go " you don't trust me , that's the root of it " kinda pit on an annoyed tone and kill the convo ..but I can't keep it up anymore
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wifehunter

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Just let her cool off... keep it lighthearted. Ladies aren't very rational. It's best to laugh and have a good time.
 

salinechow

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#1 Never call it it a Vcard. I thought for longer than I should have that you took back her Valentines day Card and she got made because it was of religious sentiment. Speak clearly as you can when addressing people, especially for advice. Never say LOL, and if you absolutly cant control yourself, AT LEAST CARE ENOUGH TO SPELL IT RIGHT! Talk like a man. Talk like a gentleman. Even if you are, or think you are a player. Communicate like a gentleman. You'll go places. Save the Don Juan for when it matters.

#2 She's obviously young. Help her by being unreactive. Lead by example. Say nothing, do not react. She'll punch herself out.

#2a Sometimes I will shut a girl up and stop her in her tracks by doing exactly the opposite of what she thinks Ill do. Ill let her blow a hissy fit and Ill sit through it while she rants. Ill stare her in her eyes in a sly and dominating way. Like a staring contest I know Ill win. When she finally breathes and asks me, "You aren't going to say anything?" "Are you even listening." I get up, approach her, grab her upper arms passionately and pull her into me. Kiss her and escalate for sex as far as is allowed. When/if she gets pissy again, I press harder. Some of the best sex I have ever had. The cherry on top, they almost always forget why they were mad. Sh!t tests remeber are not to just be a pain in the as$, its to see if shes dating a real man who gives no f^cks about pettiness and can make her feel sexy and womanly.

Word of caution. You cant reward bad behavior and this is a fine line to walk. Yet, sometimes these little tantrums aren't tests at all, its just a plea for attention. A beta a$shole would coddle her and plea for peace. An Alpha man mentality sees these are just stupid words but thinks shes attractive when she is vulenrable and firey and F6cks her and makes her feel sexy, when she is stopping her little feet for attention. If you can spot the difference and have alphaed your way( even just mostly) through the relationship this far, this little trick works wonders.

Or you could just put on your coat, kiss her forehead, and leave mid sentance without a word. That's worked wonders for me too.

Now you have a few ways to "play your next card"
 

dude99

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Long story short , took my girls Vcard and she is recently starting to go crazy. She was super religious so my guess is she really likes/loves me ( well for now lool).
Anyways she started getting REALLY possessive and it's clingy. Since last week she started to throw **** tests about my social media. I don't have Facebook or instagram ; I mainly use snapchat and twitter. Recently she started talking about the amount of females that follow me and how I should delete my account. I figured it's a **** test because I barely tweet ; maybe once a week. She doesn't even have twitter WTF LOOL

But how do I play my next card , she uses " You care about social media more than your girl "

I just go " you don't trust me , that's the root of it " kinda pit on an annoyed tone and kill the convo ..but I can't keep it up anymore
Just say back "you obviously more care about control more than me. Most people don't care about social media acccounts."
 

El Payaso

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Just turn it on her. Works most of the time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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