"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it becomes more and more clear that testosterone is the basic energy of a man.
before all the technics, the smart pick up lines, the complicated and often conflicted rules, that the pick up community is so obsessed with, there is a basic male drive.
it concludes together with ideas like pook's and gunwitch's that the only reason a man succeed socially and sexually is because of this very basic drive.

the thing with me is that i never was a masculine man, i wasn't good at sports, i am very thin and have childish look. i never faught when people stepped on me and never had positive enrgy of a man.

a kind of energy that i have come to know lately for very short periods due to use of anti-depressants drugs.

i am very relating to pook's and gunwitch's sayings of returning to the basic masculinity that we should all have as men. but i feel like a have no backbone for this.

i feel like i have no strong structure for becoming a man again. probably because of genetic reasons.

some are just genetically more masculine and others more feminine.

i do like women but dont have enough drive to ho get them no matter how.


what have you done to become that basic man again?

what can i learn about testosterone replacement therapies?

what do i do to have a true libido and the need to *** inside a womans vagina, and not on my hands?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i dont ask how do i get woman.
the net is full of **** about it.

i'm asking how do i get that drive to truly want a woman
 

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Stop masturbating so much and looking at porn, you said you suffered from depression previously, there is a link with over masturbation and depression, it could be the key. Porn also desensitizes you to real world women, making you less motivated to pursue one when there are much hotter ones about at the click on the button. I am just assuming that you do these, if not tell us more about your life style, that could be a factor
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i know that porn is wrong and i do masturbate a lot but i also know that every man does it, and some of my best natural friends had periods of exsessive masturbation but something else got them to continue on searching for real women.

in that case i think that masturbation is not a reason but a cause.

i will try to stop for and see if it motivates me, but it doesnt changes the fact that i had never been masculine, and the reasons for that are probably deeper.
 

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Not Good...

I'm gonna be a bit of hypocrite on this, but GO TO THE GYM. I need to go to the gym too, but hey, I'm lazy.

Like the others said, drop the adult movies and all activities involving your hands and reproductive organs.

I would say the best thing for you, would be to get laid, but the way you are, that's not gonna happen. So in the meantime, go to a strip club. If that doesn't jump start your "drive" then go see a shrink.


-E.Nigma
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok first i do go to the gym and i do get boosts of testosterone after that, but they never last long. i stay tired, and next time i go to the gym i'm too tired to have a good workout.
i'm just too tired all the time, i do have a sex drive but it's never stronger than the fear of going out and living a normal lustful life.
 

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daviddavid said:
ok first i do go to the gym and i do get boosts of testosterone after that, but they never last long. i stay tired, and next time i go to the gym i'm too tired to have a good workout.
i'm just too tired all the time, i do have a sex drive but it's never stronger than the fear of going out and living a normal lustful life.
I'm pretty skinny too, but just started working out. and it well does increase your testosterone...it makes me want to approach more (and thus, have more sex:D)

Just make sure you eat right if you're gonna start seriously lifting weights. Preferrably over 3000 cal a day and at least 250g of protein as well!
 

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I have had that issue too...


STOP MASTURBATING. Masturbating made me REAL tired all the time.

I am serious...just stop doing it.

How often do you do it? 3 times a day or so? Thats already a lot.
 

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Hit the gym. Sex is a primal, animalistic like desire. If your body is going to desire the animalistic nature, it's going to have to fight, run, lift, jump, and ultimately exude the same primal energy... the sexual wavelength.

Trust.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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U need to get on some human growth hormone. start hitting the weights. U sound really depressed. Remember someone always has it worse than you. Maybe take a cycle of steroids.
 

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Nasman said:
U need to get on some human growth hormone. start hitting the weights. U sound really depressed. Remember someone always has it worse than you. Maybe take a cycle of steroids.
There is a product out there called "T-Bomb" which is a natural testosterone booster. I actually just picked up some... I'm gonna do one cycle and see what happens.
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
DOING CYCLES OF ANABOLIC STEROIDS.
Seriously? Personally, I would never stoop so low.
 

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daviddavid said:
it becomes more and more clear that testosterone is the basic energy of a man.
before all the technics, the smart pick up lines, the complicated and often conflicted rules, that the pick up community is so obsessed with, there is a basic male drive.
it concludes together with ideas like pook's and gunwitch's that the only reason a man succeed socially and sexually is because of this very basic drive.

the thing with me is that i never was a masculine man, i wasn't good at sports, i am very thin and have childish look. i never faught when people stepped on me and never had positive enrgy of a man.

a kind of energy that i have come to know lately for very short periods due to use of anti-depressants drugs.

i am very relating to pook's and gunwitch's sayings of returning to the basic masculinity that we should all have as men. but i feel like a have no backbone for this.

i feel like i have no strong structure for becoming a man again. probably because of genetic reasons.

some are just genetically more masculine and others more feminine.

i do like women but dont have enough drive to ho get them no matter how.


what have you done to become that basic man again?

what can i learn about testosterone replacement therapies?

what do i do to have a true libido and the need to *** inside a womans vagina, and not on my hands?

go to the gym and start squatting. problem solved
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
In my humblest of all medical opinions, I would reccomend... DOING CYCLES OF ANABOLIC STEROIDS. Especially DBol and Windstrol, they work like a charm.

But seriously, work out, get huge... that's the solution to 99 out of 100 problems on this forum.

Lift, Eat, Sleep, Repeat.
No, get CUT instead of HUGE!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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