^ I was going to say this, but I honestly have nothing to defend. I'm not here to seek anyone's attention, I'm not here to impress anyone and I'm certainly not here to be "Mr. Look at Me I'm a Super Cool Alpha DJ with Super Cool Advice, Follow Me!!!". No. I'm here to help. First myself, then all of you (if you want it). It's good to see some people get that here; some real Don Juans.squirrels said:Pook isn't the first one to ever discover and write about human sexuality, you know.
Much of our "learning process" is re-discovering old forgotten concepts and re-phrasing/re-internalizing them in our own minds. Maybe some people can't be reached by Pook's "flourished" writing style. Maybe this guy is more to the point.
Pook would be proud, not offended.He didn't invent Testosterone. God did.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Testosterone: The simple answer to everything chick-related... and more?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm sorry to say, but the more you say this, the more you sound like someone who is, in fact, doing everything you claim not to be doing.TheJazz said:^ I was going to say this, but I honestly have nothing to defend. I'm not here to seek anyone's attention, I'm not here to impress anyone and I'm certainly not here to be "Mr. Look at Me I'm a Super Cool Alpha DJ with Super Cool Advice, Follow Me!!!". No. I'm here to help. First myself, then all of you (if you want it). It's good to see some people get that here; some real Don Juans.
That is to say, you sound very full of yourself.
It makes a lot of sense. DarkShade already answered your question earlier in this thread. Allow me to echo:darksensual said:Testosterone idea is very interesting. On this topic I have a question. I recently took up boxing which involves frantic exercise. After doing for a few weeks I don't know if it is related but I feel MUCH hornier. I know it sounds funny but this started straight after starting the boxing. Always pretty horny anyway, but especially after the exercise sessions feeling is manic - even though tired next day.
Does this make any sense?
What he's saying is increased activity levels (like your boxing) boosts testosterone thus increasing your sex drive and overall masculinity.DarkShade said:The tough part about testosterone is that it's generated through activity. The sedentary lifestyles that most Americans live in make this a chore, for the most part. For instance, office jobs or any job that requires working on computers or near a computer will involve sitting down with little cardiovascular movement. It takes real effort to create an active lifestyle, and most people are just lazy. The laziness comes from the sedentary lifestyle. Vicious cycle, no? Gotta get out there and make it happen!
Hard, but not impossible!Melen said:It's so hard to stop masterbating though!
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thanks for reviving this thread brotha! It was a good read. I agree, lifting, being active, and all sorts of things can increase testosterone. FVck the gimmicks just go out and do it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.