"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Testosterone test

mr. kennedy

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I took one recently and just got the results.

17.7 nmol/L which is 510 ng/dl.

The doc says it's normal (mid range) but when I surf the web it seems below the mean.

I'm 31.

Should I be concerned? I'm in good shape and lift weights 4 times a week for 10 years now. I never felt I had high testosterone but I'm concerned if it's below the mean.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mr. kennedy said:
I took one recently and just got the results.

17.7 nmol/L which is 510 ng/dl.

The doc says it's normal (mid range) but when I surf the web it seems below the mean.

I'm 31.

Should I be concerned? I'm in good shape and lift weights 4 times a week for 10 years now. I never felt I had high testosterone but I'm concerned if it's below the mean.


What's your fat intake like?

Eat more saturated fat, (no they don't cause heart attacks). Fats are essential hormone production and well being. Also, getting more sleep will help.

Are there any signs of a dipping test level you have noticed recently? Lower sex drive etc?

If your consistently lifting, but not eating enough calories overall, the first thing your body does is shut down the production of sex hormones because they aren't considered essential for your survival.









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mr. kennedy

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Pimp-sicle said:
What's your fat intake like?

Eat more saturated fat, (no they don't cause heart attacks). Fats are essential hormone production and well being. Also, getting more sleep will help.

Are there any signs of a dipping test level you have noticed recently? Lower sex drive etc?

If your consistently lifting, but not eating enough calories overall, the first thing your body does is shut down the production of sex hormones because they aren't considered essential for your survival.









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10.5% bodyfat.

6.5 hours sleep/night

Compared to my friends that want to f*** everything that moves, I've always had low drive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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mr. kennedy said:
10.5% bodyfat.

6.5 hours sleep/night

Compared to my friends that want to f*** everything that moves, I've always had low drive.
I suggest you to increase your sleep hours to 8.

Also keep in mind that its not total testosterone the one that matters but the free one which is in fact free to interact with androgen receptors and do his part.

A man with total testosterone 1000 and only 50 free doesnt know what women are for while a man with total testosterone of 800 of which 300 free is a muscle building fat burning fvcking machine.

Free testosterone is the amount of testosterone which doesnt get inhibited from shbc protein and is therefore free to tie to androgen receptors.

Also dont take sex drive only as benchmark since its influenced from many different hormones, for example cortisol (a hormone connected to stress levels) as much as prolactin (which goes sky high if you wank too much for example).
Then no wonder you have no sex drive if your work doesnt let you sleep or you wanked that same morning.

Prolactin provides the body with sexual gratification after sexual acts: The hormone counteracts the effect of dopamine, which is responsible for sexual arousal. This is thought to cause the sexual refractory period. The amount of prolactin can be an indicator for the amount of sexual satisfaction and relaxation. Unusually high amounts are suspected to be responsible for impotence and loss of libido (see hyperprolactinemia symptoms).
 
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