When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where did you hear this??2.0 said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your testosterone continues to build at an exponential rate.
again were did you hear this ive almost come to think that you should masturbate as little as possible except if your about to go on a date and you your going to get laid or if your in prison :crackup: but 7 days in a row and it increases your testosterone wow i not gonna go out of my way to try thisThe Mayor said:
Here, actually. And it was said somewhere on this forum that you should masturbate on Monday so that your testosterone levels will be highest on the weekend.The Mayor said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
There are several things that can increase testosterone: Get more sleep, eat more food with zinc, drink less alcohol, get more sleep, sleep in cooler room, take Vitamin B6 and magnesium, etc, etc. Testosterone has more to do with lifestyle choices than on the day of the week you can get off.2.0 said:
Thank you, that's a good idea. Personally though it's hard for me to gauge (sp?) myself. I can definitely tell a difference after 7 days but I'd like to know what happens after that. There was a study somewhere, I don't know if it was on this forum or not, of guys where they measured their testosterone levels for 23 days after masturbating. It even had a graph. Unfortunately, I can't remember where it is or what it said, and I'm not too keen on digging through 70 pages of posts when I'm not even certain that it was on this forum.WalkingStick said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thank you!!Darth said:
If you're masturbating, then yeah, that would be the way to do it.2.0 said:
Well they would be, except I raise it using other methods, like diet, exercise, etc.2.0 said:
No. That's the funny part. Apparently ejaculating in your sleep is a completely different process and there is no negative effect or withdrawal symptoms. But when you use your hand, a whole different thing is triggered.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.