RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I got a PM from a member asking me about testing, why chicks do it and how to respond. I never really gave it much thought... my advice is if she's making things hard go find other chicks... and if she's no fun... go find fun chicks.
Chicks are not testing you... they are testing themselves... they are testing how THEY feel. When you let her drift off and don't chase her or you are non-responsive, she figures out if you are worth pursuing. If she thinks she is going to lose her shot with you and cares, she'll reach out and hope you do something. If your absence stimulates her chase instinct, she figures she feels something.
When you try harder and don't leave her be... she will be ticked off and push you away harder. So let her go and figure out how she feels... but it is no guarantee that letting her go will work. She might learn that you really don't make her feel anything, in which case you are done.
It's never about you or what you do, that is PUA BS, it's all about her interest level and how you make her feel. So if you are looking for a chick to connect with, just keep trying them on and you'll know one fits if she likes you enough to put effort into you.
Chicks are not testing you... they are testing themselves... they are testing how THEY feel. When you let her drift off and don't chase her or you are non-responsive, she figures out if you are worth pursuing. If she thinks she is going to lose her shot with you and cares, she'll reach out and hope you do something. If your absence stimulates her chase instinct, she figures she feels something.
When you try harder and don't leave her be... she will be ticked off and push you away harder. So let her go and figure out how she feels... but it is no guarantee that letting her go will work. She might learn that you really don't make her feel anything, in which case you are done.
It's never about you or what you do, that is PUA BS, it's all about her interest level and how you make her feel. So if you are looking for a chick to connect with, just keep trying them on and you'll know one fits if she likes you enough to put effort into you.