"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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testing for STDs...

napoleon

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OK, if any of you guys got tested tell me what kind of tests they were. Cause I have a phobia from needles so I was wondering can you get tested without giving blood?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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It depends on what they are testing you for.
They can stick a swab up your ureathra in some cases. OUCH!!!

Are you in bigger fear of needles or loosing your d^ck?
I've seen some nasty STD's and my cousin (a SF medic in the Philipines) was telling me about this one kid who had to come in every few days so he could scrape out the soars on his penis and pack them with gauze. Even after a painful shot to numb it the kid still had to bite on a rag to keep from screaming in pain.

What's better? A little needle in your arm or a stinky, rotten, dripping penis that has to be scraped clean and packed full of gauze?
 

md3sign

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lol teflon

I went to get tested for everything once, you might as well. IIRC, you have to pee in a cup and then they stick a cotton swab type thing in your penis, twice. I won't lie it hurts, but it only lasts a few seconds and it's a good idea to get tested every now and then even if you think you're clean.
 

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If raw dogging multiple girls, get tested once in awhile. It's better than having your **** fall off.
 
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